Being a Doormat
A woman who is a doormat is agreeable. She knows nothing about being submissive because she struggles every day to hold her tongue and she struggles with her emotions, she has no self-control and is never accountable for her actions. Always the woman saying she’s a fault for messing with a man who wasn’t bad until the end. A woman who is a doormat is agreeable because she doesn’t know how to be submissive, she’s a fraud in her own body, emotional & disrespectful (level 1 in the 7 levels of disrespect). She’s a smart mouth heffer too. A woman, who is a doormat, struggles with being submissive. She doesn’t know where to be effective for her man, she doesn’t know how to be an asset to her man, and she becomes a liability to the relationship. When the relationship has ended, she blames it on everyone but herself, a doormat will never see herself at fault, that’s why you see women blaming being submissive on the ending of a relationship. Instead of saying “it was my fault, I fucked up, and I need to fix this” women who struggle with submission also have children who have an issue with submission. If they can’t see her being submissive and constantly being a pain in the ass, they act out like their mother, and then the mother wonders why her children don’t listen to her. Whenever you tell a doormat to do something, she has an excuse, that’s because she’s used to dealing with losers and needs everything dumbed down to a second-grade level. Her cooperation level makes her annoying. You may fire this type of woman in the future. As you will feel like you’re fucking your daughter, that’s how dumb a doormat is. You have to do all her thinking for her like she is a child. It’s not a good feeling.
VS Submissive
Now, a submissive woman doesn’t have these issues because she shows strength & control over her emotions, she thinks logically, so she knows where she went wrong and how to fix it because a submissive woman can think for herself, not through her emotions. A submissive woman knows how to be effective & an asset to her man. She doesn’t struggle with submission because she’s strong; being overly emotional and jealous is for little girls. Not thinking logically is child’s play. A submissive woman can admit when she’s fucked up, & how to fix her relationship. Since she is at fault she feels guilt and shame. She is respectful and never mouthy unless you’re a simp. She can be instructed on what to do & she’ll give 100% cooperation. If she wants to know how, she’ll ask, she doesn’t need instructions to be dumbed down. This type of woman is a keeper because she doesn’t need to be watched. Give her something to do & she’ll do it. She will get it done. You’ll feel like you’re actually dealing with a grown human being. A submissive woman can think for herself, LOGICALLY & she doesn’t need you to hold her hand like a baby. At the same time, she still acts like a woman very feminine and graceful.
There's a difference.