Khadijah Haqq told a court her ex-husband brings in roughly $18,600 a month. She says the family got less than $3,000 from him in three years.
That’s the whole story in two sentences. Here’s the ledger.
Bobby McCray played defensive end in the NFL from 2004 to 2010 and earned more than $11 million over his career. According to Khadijah’s August filing, he now pulls about $18,600 a month — $11,250 in NFL disability income, $3,044 from another disability benefit, $2,829 from an NFL annuity, plus Social Security benefits. She says he holds more than $765,000 in an NFL 401(k), with annuity accounts worth over $120,000 and $69,000 on top of that.
Her side of the ledger looks very different. Khadijah told the court her income is sporadic — paychecks from her Hulu reality show, $25,000 from two Raising Cane’s appearances in 2025, $7,500 for social media consulting, plus residuals and brand deals. She said none of it covered the household bills for her and the kids. She said she borrowed from friends to stay afloat, including about $8,000 her sister sent in 2025, money she says she plans to pay back.
She’s asking for $7,000 a month in combined child and spousal support, plus $100,000 toward her legal fees. She told the court the support should let her keep the lifestyle she and the kids had during the marriage — dinners out several times a week, vacations, extracurricular activities.
Now a court order is making Bobby turn over his NFL income records — retirement, pension, benefits, all of it. Both sides have to produce their personal account records too, digital wallets included. Khadijah has to hand over her business expenses.
She also claims he blocked her number. Her texts stopped delivering. Messages from their daughter and a mutual friend still went through.
They met at a club in 2007. Married in 2010. Split in August 2023 after 13 years. Bobby filed for divorce in August 2024. Three kids. The divorce still isn’t final.
$18,600 a month coming in. Less than $3,000 reaching the house in three years. The court just ordered him to open the books. -SSM
[MATTHEW’S TAKE — his words to add]