Why do I see more value in women than I do in myself? Why should I put myself underneath women? Why is it important for them to like me so much? What is the point or benefit?
Simping comes from a place of ego, a place of low self-esteem, and lack of self-love.
We all have moments in our life when we question our worth and our purpose. We feel alone, trapped in our heads, and unable to break free from the negative thoughts that plague us. The same can be said for men who find themselves simping, asking themselves why they feel the need to put so much value into a woman’s opinion of them.
Simping is a sign of insecurity, a lack of self-confidence, and a lack of self-love. Simping manifests itself in different ways – from always trying to please a woman and putting her needs and wants above your own, to constantly seeking validation and approval from her.
Simping can be damaging to your mental and emotional health as it can lead to feelings of worthlessness and depression. It can also lead to unhealthy relationships, as you may find yourself in a situation where you are always giving and never receiving.
The key to overcoming simping is to focus on yourself. Start by loving yourself and valuing your worth. Stop seeking validation from someone else and instead focus on your own goals and dreams. Take time to work on your self-esteem, so that you can see yourself in a positive light and feel confident in your own skin.
Take control of your life and make sure you’re not sacrificing your own wellbeing for someone else’s. Remember that you don’t need someone else’s approval or validation to feel good about yourself.
If you’re asking yourself why you’re simping, the answer is simple; you’re not valuing yourself enough. Take steps to build your self-esteem and confidence, so that you can be the best version of yourself.