The average man believes that if he works hard & brings home the money to his woman there should be no issue failing to realize that those are necessary things adults have to do if they don’t want to be broke & poor. It has nothing to do with the relationship.
They are both neglectful to each others needs, if she wanted affection she should chip in which would free up his schedule so they actually have QT. Him working a lot to provide would neglect her.
The average man is clueless to how women really act & does not notice the change in behavior patterns until it is too late & she’s already cheated. She might do something’s to throw you off, I wouldn’t call it skill. After all it’s not an even playing field where he maynot be experienced in cheating but she is.
Women on the other hand are in denial about a man cheating on them. Thus it’s not naive, it’s just stupidity. They have all of the evidence but will still need to see it.